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Acceptance, Forgiveness, and Grace

Acceptance, Forgiveness, and Grace

Healing the family

Today’s readings invite us to do these three, tangible things.

Accept the challenges of day-to-day life: We’re called to accept ourselves and others as we are. If we let anger and bitterness, hatred and resentment get the better of us, this unwillingness to forgive harms only ourselves.

Ask for forgiveness: We must forgive because only forgiveness heals our relationships. If we remember how God has forgiven us, it will help us forgive others.

Lead a grace-filled life: Follow Jesus’ teaching: “Love your enemies…do good actions to those who hate you…and pray for those who mistreat you.” We should treat others with love and kindness in the spirit of forgiveness and mercy.

May the love of God that conquers all, even our hurts, fears, prejudices and griefs help us to accept the challenges of day-to-day. May the cross of Jesus Christ free us from the tyranny of malice, hatred, revenge, and resentment and gives us the courage to ask for forgiveness. May the grace of God fill our hearts with his grace and mercy and love to live the “Golden Rule.”

About Father Pinto Paul, C.S.C.

Father Pinto Paul, C.S.C., Ph.D., serves as the International Director of Holy Cross Family Ministries (HCFM). In this role, he provides leadership and support to HCFM ministries in 18 countries across 6 continents, helping advance the mission of strengthening family prayer, faith formation, and spiritual life around the world. Originally from Kerala, India, Father Pinto spent ten years as a missionary in Tripura with the Northeast Province of the Congregation of Holy Cross. Before his appointment as International Director, he served as Special Assistant to the President of Holy Cross Family Ministries. He also ministered for six years in Campus Ministry at Stonehill College, accompanying students in their faith formation, leadership development, and spiritual growth.