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Are You More Like St. Peter or St. Paul? Family Reflection Video

Are You More Like St. Peter or St. Paul? Family Reflection Video

Holy lives of inspiration

Yesterday, Father Boby John using the gospel account of the disciples being tossed about at sea, encouraged us to follow their lead and awaken Jesus for our own needs in prayer. A few hours later, while standing at a hair salon with my Mom, a woman approached and said Father, can I have a blessing? I could really use one!

God uses the ordinary moments of our lives to remind us of His presence and the needs of our brothers and sisters.

And, He calls each of us to be part of his salvific plan.

Today we remember and pray to two heroes in the faith, St. Peter and St. Paul. Two unlikely candidates to become disciples, apostles, evangelists, and martyrs for the faith.

So, who do you identify more with … Peter, who answered Jesus’ invitation with sincerity and best of intentions but at times doubted and even let Jesus down in his infamous denial in the garden of Gethsemane?

Or is it Paul, who seems to have only one gear, total and unwavering belief, whether it was in persecuting the followers of Jesus before his dramatic conversion on the way to Damascus … and then likewise as he gave everything to bring the Gentiles to faith in the very Jesus he had fought against?

Most likely, we find ourselves a mixture of these two saints, perhaps depending upon our stage of life and current events, including whether we had that second cup of coffee.

But, one thing is for sure, what we see is how God can transform the hearts and minds and lives of those who are willing to listen and speak with Him, no matter where we find ourselves.

For St. Paul, there was that one dramatic encounter with Jesus, and from that point on, he never wavered, even in the most difficult of trials, as we heard in today’s reading.

St. Peter’s transformation was different. He needed to be with Jesus, to listen to His call, to both succeed and fail, and then to be restored through Jesus’ healing words so that He could be that rock upon which the Church of Jesus stands.

On some days, we can go from St. Paul’s unwavering zeal for the faith in the morning ... to St. Peter’s taking his eye off Jesus while trying to walk toward Him on the water … and then find ourselves wondering, what happened?

That’s reality and a reminder of why we need the examples and intercession of Saints Peter and Paul.

The common bond between these two holy and heroic men of virtue is their openness to God’s grace and their humility in knowing they needed it.

The same is true for each of us, whether we are the one seeking a blessing from a priest, forgiveness in the Sacrament of Confession, or someone to join us in prayer, countless other grace-filled times.

Saint Peter and St. Paul, pray for us.
Pray for us to have the zeal and confidence
of St. Paul in proclaiming Jesus’ saving power,
and the strength of St. Peter to be a faithful
grounding presence in our families and friendships.
Amen.

May God bless you and your families on this holy day!


About Father David Marcham

Reverend David S. Marcham is the Vice Postulator for the Cause of Venerable Patrick Peyton, and Director of the Father Peyton Guild, whose members pray for Father Peyton’s beatification and spread his message of the importance of Family Prayer. Prior to becoming a seminarian, Father David was a physical therapist and clinical instructor, serving hospital inpatients and outpatients throughout the greater Boston area for eleven years. In 1998 he heard the call to priesthood and was ordained in the Archdiocese of Boston in 2005. Father David grew up in Quincy, MA, and has fond memories of playing soccer, tennis and running track. You’re never without a friend when Father David is around, as he welcomes everyone into his circle with a smile on his face!