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Attachments: Family Reflection Video

Attachments: Family Reflection Video

Strengthening family unity

Attachment to the wrong things like people, wealth, power and status always cause misery.

Are we attached to the right thing?

In the first reading, we read about Solomon’s attachment. Despite everything God had given him, including a heart of understanding, Solomon still gets it wrong in the end.

In contrast, the mother in today’s Gospel was very attached to her daughter who was going through tremendous suffering. She believed Jesus could heal her daughter and she trusted Him.  So, she begged Him and He granted her request. She had the right attachment to the right thing.

The more single-mindedly we are attached to God, the more we will love our family members. When we bring our family members to God, He will be pleased with us and will meet our needs. The more we are distracted by pleasures and things, the less attached we will be to God. The less attached we are the less likely we are to do His Will, which will include loving our family members.  

Friends, can we say like St. Francis did, “God I don't want anything except you"?

About Father Pinto Paul, C.S.C.

Father Pinto Paul, C.S.C., Ph.D., serves as the International Director of Holy Cross Family Ministries (HCFM). In this role, he provides leadership and support to HCFM ministries in 18 countries across 6 continents, helping advance the mission of strengthening family prayer, faith formation, and spiritual life around the world. Originally from Kerala, India, Father Pinto spent ten years as a missionary in Tripura with the Northeast Province of the Congregation of Holy Cross. Before his appointment as International Director, he served as Special Assistant to the President of Holy Cross Family Ministries. He also ministered for six years in Campus Ministry at Stonehill College, accompanying students in their faith formation, leadership development, and spiritual growth.