
Cultivating a Heart for God - Weekday Homily Video
In our fast-paced, screen-filled world, we're constantly bombarded with the need for validation. Likes, shares, and recognition can easily become our measure of worth. But today's readings offer a powerful truth: God isn't impressed by appearances; He sees the heart. He blesses what is done in secret, in sincerity, and from genuine love.
Saint Paul calls us to cheerful generosity. This isn't just about money; it's about how we give our time, love, and attention within our homes and beyond, without expecting anything in return.
For parents, it's cheerfully listening to your kids, even when you're tired. For children, it's helping with chores without being asked, or sharing with siblings. As families, it's quietly supporting a neighbor in need, without broadcasting it. God reminds us, "The one who supplies seed to the sower will also supply and increase the harvest of your righteousness." (2 Cor 9:10). Your generosity, given from the heart, will never leave you empty; it will fill you with a deeper purpose and joy.
Authentic Faith: God Sees Your Secret Heart
Jesus highlights almsgiving, prayer, and fasting, but warns against doing them for show. "Do not perform righteous deeds to be seen by others," He says. Do them in secret, "and your Father who sees in secret will repay you." (Matt 6:1).
This is crucial for our families: our relationship with God should be real and intimate, not for show.
- When we pray as a family, is it a genuine conversation with God, or just going through the motions?
- When we offer acts of kindness, is it for applause or out of true compassion?
- When we make sacrifices, is it to look pious, or to grow closer to Christ?
In a world that celebrates what’s public, God invites us to cultivate what’s private – the deep, true motivations of our hearts.
Living Inwardly in an Outward-Facing World
It takes courage to live for God alone. It takes courage to:
- Pray unseen: Teaching our children the quiet power of personal prayer.
- Give silently: Performing acts of service within the family or for others without needing praise.
- Love without fanfare: Offering forgiveness or patience without seeking credit.
Think of Mary, our Blessed Mother. Her profound faith unfolded quietly in her home, not on stages. Her greatness was hidden, but God saw it and exalted her.
So, let's strive not to impress, but to abide. Not to perform, but to love authentically. Let's live each moment for the eyes of God alone. What secret act of kindness or prayer might you offer this week?
- Today’s Readings
- Father Pinto's inspirational homily was recorded live during Mass at the Father Peyton Center this morning. You can view the Mass (and the Rosary at the 30-minute mark) on the Family Rosary YouTube page.
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About Father Pinto Paul, C.S.C.
Father Pinto Paul C.S.C., ordained a priest in the Congregation of Holy Cross in 1999, worked with tribal populations in northeast India as a missionary for ten years. In 2010 he came to the US for further studies. While working as a campus minister at Stonehill College, he assisted pastors in local parishes, led seminars and workshops for teachers and students in the US and earned a master’s degree in Educational Administration from Boston College and a Ph.D. in Educational Leadership from Lesley University, Cambridge. He is currently working as the International Director of the Boston-based Holy Cross Family Ministries with missions in 18 countries.