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Finding and Making It Through the Narrow Gate – Family Reflection Video

Finding and Making It Through the Narrow Gate – Family Reflection Video

Holy lives of inspiration

Today we remember and give thanks to God for the life of a young man, St. Aloysius Gonzaga, who managed to enter the narrow gate as we heard about in the gospel.

Growing up, I can remember hearing that my grandfather’s complete name was Francis Aloysius Shay. I always thought Aloysius was a cool name. I knew that people chose saints for their first and middle names, but I didn’t know the story behind that name, one that I am sure inspired, my grandfather.

It’s fitting that we celebrate St. Aloysius with today’s readings. For it causes us to reflect on two royal men and what their paths in life show us.

The first speaks of a king who refused to believe and listen to God, resulting in his defeat.

Aloysius, also born into nobility, however, took a different path.

The son of the king, he was truly privileged from an earthly standpoint, and yet God’s grace was surely at work in his life, as he was drawn to prayer and penance from a young age. This led him to forgo wealth and power and enter the Jesuits and, in doing so, enter the narrow gate God intended for him.

Aloysius dreamed of being a missionary for Christ, but as often happens, fate intervened. A plague gripped the city of Rome, and Aloysius volunteered to minister to the sick in his local hospital.

He embraced God’s mission for him with the same zeal he had for traveling to foreign lands. He used the gifts that God had given him to be an instrument of grace to those suffering and dying, to bring the presence of Jesus to those most in need.

Aloysius caught the plague and died three months later in the service of God and his fellow man.

Two lessons come to mind.

  1. No matter how wealthy or poor we are, no matter how much earthly power we possess, if we listen to God, we will find our vocation in life, one that is rich in purpose.
  2. Though we might perceive where God is leading us to serve, He may need us to adapt our plans, to be with and where we are most needed according to His Divine plan.

My brothers and sisters, if we listen, pray, and yes, do penance, like St. Aloysius, then we can follow Jesus through that narrow gate, and one day, please God, join the saints in Heaven.

May God bless you and your families this holy day!


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About Father David Marcham

Father David S. Marcham is a priest of the Archdiocese of Boston and serves as Vice Postulator and Guild Director of the Cause for Canonization of Venerable Patrick Peyton. Before entering St. John’s Seminary in Brighton, Massachusetts, he worked for eleven years as a physical therapist in Boston-area hospitals. Ordained in 2005, Father David was assigned to St. Mary Parish in Franklin, Massachusetts. His involvement in Father Peyton’s Cause began in 2007, when he assisted Father George Lucas, C.S.C., in advancing the Cause for Canonization. Appointed Vice Postulator in 2009, Father David oversees the progress of the Cause, directs the Guild, and promotes devotion to Father Peyton’s legacy of family prayer.