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God Made Us To Be Better Than O.K.: Family Rosary Video

By: Father David Marcham on August 26th, 2020

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God Made Us To Be Better Than O.K.: Family Rosary Video

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The title of the popular 1960’s self-help book, I’m O.K.; You’re O.K., popped into my head as the antithesis of Jesus’ warning to the scribes and Pharisees in today’s gospel. In an age when we’re told to think positively about ourselves, many still wrestle with low self-confidence and even depression.

Given this reality, how can we understand Jesus’ words of warning about hypocrisy and sin without further being discouraged? 

  • We can recognize the real battle that exists between good and evil in our world and on a personal level. Because of the effects of original sin, we can be tempted and fall. As one spiritual director said: “It’s going to happen, so what’s your plan?” St. Paul refers to this as “walking in a disorderly way.” The disorderly way of the scribes and Pharisees was to give a righteous outward appearance that had nothing to do with the reality of their lives.
  • We can take an honest look into our actions and thoughts. How do they measure up to the ten commandments and the beatitudes? This is what Jesus wants the scribes and Pharisees to do so that they will realize the deep cleaning that their souls need to match their outward appearance. We can become tempted to avoid this self-examination … like we might not want to look in the junk drawer in the kitchen. You know, the one we toss things into but don’t want to sort through.

Jesus knows what’s in our hearts and minds, and this is where it all begins. To walk with Jesus each day, we need to work to have holy minds and hearts. That starts with praying each morning to do the will of God throughout the day, not just when people are watching but even when no one can see us but God. The more we pray, the better. When we do, we’re acknowledging our need and faith that God is with us.

This is what the scribes and Pharisees had lost and what they tried to make up for by a false exterior.

May we heed Jesus’ warning and grow to love Him more by the realization of just how much we need Him every day.


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About Father David Marcham

Father David S. Marcham is a priest of the Archdiocese of Boston and serves as Vice Postulator and Guild Director of the Cause for Canonization of Venerable Patrick Peyton. Before entering St. John’s Seminary in Brighton, Massachusetts, he worked for eleven years as a physical therapist in Boston-area hospitals. Ordained in 2005, Father David was assigned to St. Mary Parish in Franklin, Massachusetts. His involvement in Father Peyton’s Cause began in 2007, when he assisted Father George Lucas, C.S.C., in advancing the Cause for Canonization. Appointed Vice Postulator in 2009, Father David oversees the progress of the Cause, directs the Guild, and promotes devotion to Father Peyton’s legacy of family prayer.