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How to Say “Goodbye” … With Faith: Family Reflection Video

How to Say “Goodbye” … With Faith: Family Reflection Video

Strengthening family unity

Often, goodbyes are difficult. In my family we’re always the last to leave … the short distance between where you put your coat on and the door isn’t measured in feet but in time, as we remember one more thing or story to tell before leaving.

Jesus offers us help for difficult goodbyes through a prayer for the disciples at the Last Supper ... a prayer of unity and a prayer of consolation.

“Holy Father, keep them in your name that you have given me, so that they may be one just as we are one.” John 17:11

He’s reminding us that it is through God, the Father and the Son, we may be one, both now and in the future. Though there might be a distance of separation in each of our farewells, there is a unity in spirit. And one day, a unity in body and soul, that will remain as long as we stay in the Name of God.

Yes, goodbyes are difficult. I’m sure you and your family have experienced them. A son or daughter leaves home for the first time, a close friend moves away, a loved one goes home to God … there are many examples. What are some goodbyes you and your family have had to deal with? How did you console and support each other?

Thank you for joining us today. May God bless you and your family.

About Father David Marcham

Father David S. Marcham is a priest of the Archdiocese of Boston and serves as Vice Postulator and Guild Director of the Cause for Canonization of Venerable Patrick Peyton. Before entering St. John’s Seminary in Brighton, Massachusetts, he worked for eleven years as a physical therapist in Boston-area hospitals. Ordained in 2005, Father David was assigned to St. Mary Parish in Franklin, Massachusetts. His involvement in Father Peyton’s Cause began in 2007, when he assisted Father George Lucas, C.S.C., in advancing the Cause for Canonization. Appointed Vice Postulator in 2009, Father David oversees the progress of the Cause, directs the Guild, and promotes devotion to Father Peyton’s legacy of family prayer.