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Humbly Accepting God

By: Father David Marcham on December 16th, 2025

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Can you imagine finding out that your neighbor—the one everyone considered a bad person—made it into Heaven? Whatever emotions or questions that might stir up in us pale in comparison to the shock Jesus causes in today’s Gospel. In His parable of the man with two sons, Jesus compares the first son—the one who initially said “no” to his father but later changed his mind and did what was asked—to tax collectors and prostitutes. 

 

That alone would have been scandalous to His listeners. Tax collectors and prostitutes were considered the most shameful, the most morally corrupt, people of their time. Most believed they were beyond redemption—that the die had been cast, that they could not change. Like that imagined neighbor…or even someone closer to home. 

 

Confronting Our Hearts

 

But Jesus doesn’t stop there. He delivers an even more unsettling message—not primarily to open the minds of sinners, but to confront the hearts of the chief priests and elders, the respected religious leaders. Jesus tells them that these notorious sinners because they repented and obeyed God, are entering the Kingdom of God before them. 

 

And He explains exactly why. When John the Baptist came calling people to repentance, the tax collectors and prostitutes listened—and it changed them. But the chief priests and elders closed their hearts. They dismissed John. And even after witnessing lives transformed, they still refused to change their minds or believe. This Gospel warns us about the danger of presumption and spiritual arrogance. And the antidote is humility.

 

Daily Humbling Moments

 

Humility isn’t just about grand spiritual moments. It shows up in ordinary, daily experiences—walking into a room and forgetting why we’re there, spilling our coffee while rushing out the door, forgetting to return a message. These small humblings remind us that we don’t have everything figured out.

 

The first reading reinforces this lesson by contrasting the humble with the “proud braggarts”—those who believe God’s Word applies to everyone else but themselves, who resist correction, distance themselves from God, and live in deceit. 

 

An Invitation to Slow Down

 

As we continue this Advent season, preparing to celebrate the birth of our Savior—and ultimately to see Him face to face—we are invited to slow down, to listen, and to search our hearts. We’re called to review our days, to step away from the noise and distractions, and to sit in quiet long enough to remember, to reflect, and to pray. 

 

As Fr. Pinto said yesterday, Advent is the season to adjust our focus— in how we see Jesus, how we see our families and others, and how we see ourselves…through God’s eyes. 

 

My brothers and sisters, Jesus came to save all—including us. We are works in progress, in need of repentance and faith, and in need of a Messiah who comes not for the perfect, but for the humble, the repentant, and the open-hearted. 

 

May we and our families be among them.


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About Father David Marcham

Reverend David S. Marcham is the Vice Postulator for the Cause of Venerable Patrick Peyton, and Director of the Father Peyton Guild, whose members pray for Father Peyton’s beatification and spread his message of the importance of Family Prayer. Prior to becoming a seminarian, Father David was a physical therapist and clinical instructor, serving hospital inpatients and outpatients throughout the greater Boston area for eleven years. In 1998 he heard the call to priesthood and was ordained in the Archdiocese of Boston in 2005. Father David grew up in Quincy, MA, and has fond memories of playing soccer, tennis and running track. You’re never without a friend when Father David is around, as he welcomes everyone into his circle with a smile on his face!