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Incredible Turn of Events: Family Reflection Video

By: Father David Marcham on December 7th, 2020

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Incredible Turn of Events: Family Reflection Video

Holy lives of inspiration

Today’s saint never saw it coming … Ambrose was a politician, a catechumen, not yet baptized when he went to an assembly meeting and heard someone cry out: “Ambrose for bishop!” Then the whole assembly picked up the chant. He was shocked.

The people’s will prevailed, and Ambrose was baptized and one week later, consecrated bishop of Milan on December 7, 374.

This incredible turn of events reminded me of what many of you have been called to do. Without notice, countless parents, grandparents, and even older brothers and sisters, have been asked to assume the roles of teacher, coach, music instructor, I.T. gurus, etc.

In St. Ambrose, we see how the people saw in him the gifts and disposition they wanted in their shepherd. And, in Ambrose’s response, we have an example of hearing the call of God for something both unexpected and unimaginable … we see that he put aside worldly goods and power for God and his Church.

What so many of you are doing in serving your families during this pandemic is following St. Ambrose’s example—as you serve the educational and physical needs, sometimes of multiple generations in your families. And, yet in all its goodness, this can become overwhelming.

The answer to this challenge is found in our gospel and what Ambrose did too ... they went to Jesus. 

In Ambrose's message to bishops, we can find counsel when he wrote:

“You pilot your ship against the waves. Take firm hold of the rudder of faith so that the severe storms of this world cannot disturb you.”

In this time of Advent, let us take some time with our families to pray and talk about how God calls each of us to a deeper faith in Him through what He’s asking us to do by serving our family and friends’ needs.

And tell them about St. Ambrose, who rose to the occasion. Just like us, with the grace of God, we can also do every day!


  • Father David's inspirational homily was recorded live this morning during Mass at the Father Peyton Center. Please view the video on our Facebook page. (You don't need a Facebook account to view.) 
  • To view Rosary prayer and Mass streaming live, please visit our Facebook page at 11:30 am EST, Monday – Friday. Please invite your loved ones to join us too! (You don't need a Facebook account to view.)         

About Father David Marcham

Reverend David S. Marcham is the Vice Postulator for the Cause of Venerable Patrick Peyton, and Director of the Father Peyton Guild, whose members pray for Father Peyton’s beatification and spread his message of the importance of Family Prayer. Prior to becoming a seminarian, Father David was a physical therapist and clinical instructor, serving hospital inpatients and outpatients throughout the greater Boston area for eleven years. In 1998 he heard the call to priesthood and was ordained in the Archdiocese of Boston in 2005. Father David grew up in Quincy, MA, and has fond memories of playing soccer, tennis and running track. You’re never without a friend when Father David is around, as he welcomes everyone into his circle with a smile on his face!