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Mary’s Gift to Families: Humble and Wise - Weekday Homily Video

Mary’s Gift to Families: Humble and Wise - Weekday Homily Video

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On September 8 each year, we celebrate not just a birthday, but the dawn of hope. The Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary marks the tender beginning of God’s promise—through the birth of a daughter who would become the Mother of our Savior.


Mary’s life offers families today a model, especially in a world where parents juggle endless demands, children face digital distractions, and households often feel scattered. Her example speaks through three simple but powerful qualities: humble presence, hungry hearts, and sacred wisdom.

 

Humble Presence

 

When Gabriel announced God’s plan, Mary did not hide in fear or doubt. She was fully present, listening, asking, and finally saying: “Let it be done unto me according to your word.”


In family life today, humble presence means putting aside distractions—phones at the dinner table, worries while our children talk—and truly seeing each other. It means spouses who listen with patience, parents who admit mistakes, and children who know they are loved not for achievements, but simply for who they are.


Hungry Hearts

 

Mary’s heart longed for God above all else. She was hungry for His Word, His presence, His will.
Our culture fills us with endless noise, yet leaves us unsatisfied. Families grow strong when they cultivate this holy hunger—by praying together, giving thanks before meals, reading Scripture, or creating simple traditions of faith.  
Our homes become places of deeper joy and purpose when our appetites are directed toward God.


Sacred Wisdom

Mary was wise not because she knew everything, but because she pondered everything in her heart. Her wisdom was centered on God’s love and guided her choices.


Families today are bombarded with advice, schedules, and pressures. Sacred wisdom helps us ask: Does this decision bring us closer to God? Does it build love, character, and generosity?
True wisdom is not about more information but about clearer priorities: God first, always.


Conclusion

 

Mary’s birth was quiet, unnoticed by the world, yet it changed history. In the same way, the small choices we make in our families—to be present, to hunger for God, to seek wisdom—may seem small, but they have the power to transform our homes and our world.


Today, let us ask Mary to walk with our families. May she help parents to love with tenderness, children to grow in faith, and all of us to say “yes” to God’s plan.


Humble, hungry, and wise—this is Mary’s gift to us.
May it also become our gift to one another.

Amen.



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  • Father Pinto's inspirational homily was recorded live during Mass at the Father Peyton Center this morning. You can view the Mass (and the Rosary at the 30-minute mark) on the Family Rosary YouTube page.

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About Father Pinto Paul, C.S.C.

Father Pinto Paul C.S.C., ordained a priest in the Congregation of Holy Cross in 1999, worked with tribal populations in northeast India as a missionary for ten years. In 2010 he came to the US for further studies. While working as a campus minister at Stonehill College, he assisted pastors in local parishes, led seminars and workshops for teachers and students in the US and earned a master’s degree in Educational Administration from Boston College and a Ph.D. in Educational Leadership from Lesley University, Cambridge. He is currently working as the International Director of the Boston-based Holy Cross Family Ministries with missions in 18 countries.