Celebrating family life | Seasonal Reflections
More than four decades ago, when my wife and I learned that we were expecting our first child, we initially kept our news a secret, just between the two of us. This special knowledge drew us closer together in a mix of joy, anxiety, and need for mutual support.
Slowly, as time went on, we carefully shared our good news. First, to close family, and then later, we widened the circle of knowing. Soon, all of our friends and family knew we were “expecting.” Over the weeks and months, our anticipation steadily increased, as did the obvious signs of pregnancy. The eventual birth began an unimaginable adventure. We saw everything in a new light.
I think for parents and guardians, raising children is a mission of joy, love, and care that offers opportunity for self-discovery. Who would think caring for a baby could make us so tired? That child-rearing could stretch our patience and awareness of our own limitations? It can be humbling.
As we know, the new Liturgical Year has begun. We find ourselves in Advent – waiting in anticipation.
We begin Advent slowly, in hope, with one candle flame on the Advent Wreath, a simple beginning light to remind us that darkness does not overcome the light.
The Annunciation begins as a quiet light in humanity’s story, the message of an angel, a virgin betrothed, the power of God’s Spirit. Eventually, the story illuminates all the world. It is a story of a family’s beginning and God’s loving intention to be among us – one human family (Luke 1:26-38).
The Annunciation, first Joyful Mystery of the Rosary, celebrates the joy of expecting a new Life – a Light for the world.
In the practice of lighting the Advent wreath’s candles over these four weeks, we meditate on how we are steadily growing in the light of faith. God’s grace invites us into His light.
The expression “seeing the light” suggests a new understanding, insight into the reality of the moment, new perspective on some event in our lives, or vision for the future. Faith gives light to our lives. As Advent moves from one candlelight to the fullness of four, so do we, with prayer, reflection, and God’s grace, move forward to let faith enlighten how we live and love in the world.
How can your family prayer enlighten the celebration of this Advent season?
- Visit our new Advent page, The Power of One "Yes" to God, offering resources throughout Advent to accompany families on their journey to Bethlehem and the celebration of Christmas.