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Quality, not Quantity – the Life of St. Agnes: Family Reflection Video

Quality, not Quantity – the Life of St. Agnes: Family Reflection Video

Holy lives of inspiration

Today, we celebrate the feast of St. Agnes, who was martyred when she was only twelve or thirteen. Why was a child of this age martyred? How could she have accomplished enough in these few years?

 

 

Growing up in a wealthy Christian home in ancient Rome in the third century, St. Agnes had promised God she would never marry, saying: “Jesus is my only spouse.”

Perhaps, like the unclean spirits in the Gospel passage, who recognized Him and surrendered at His feet, Agnes, at a young age, had realized Jesus is the Son of God, who has power and authority over every other power and earthly desires.

Many lurid legends circulated regarding the details of the tortures and temptations Agnes subjected. According to one legend, her difficulties began when she refused to marry the son of a Roman prefect who tried to force her to abandon her faith and become his wife. Agnes’ response to this and any other attempts was, “I would offend my Spouse if I were to please you. He chose me first, and He shall have me!” Consequently, she was beheaded by order of the emperor Diocletian.

St. Agnes was one of the most celebrated martyrs in the Middle Ages because she had committed “to do the Lord’s will,” and “doing God’s will was her delight,” as we heard the Psalmist say in today’s responsorial Psalm. She believed her “Savior Jesus Christ has destroyed death and brought life to light.” (2 Tim. 1:10).

Saint Agnus is usually depicted in art accompanied by a lamb since her name, Agnes sounds like the Latin word for lamb, “Agnus” as in “Agnus Dei” — Lamb of God. But, it comes from the Greek word, “Hagnos,” meaning “chaste, pure, holy, sacred,” — virtues which apply to her and to which each of us can aspire to imitate.

Saint Agnus was faithful in a time of trouble. The only thing that mattered to her was God’s will. You and I, too, have troubles in our lives. We may not be forced to deny our Lord, but we do get into situations with others and fail to act in love.

Then resentments may grow and poison our relationship with God and each other. Agnes teaches us that it is not the quantity of the years of our life but the quality of our life and death that matters.

How are we living our Christian lives? Do we delight in doing God’s will?


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About Father Jilson Tom, C.S.C.

Father Jilson Tom, C.S.C. is from the Northeast India Province of Holy Cross. A native of Kerala, Father Jilson has been serving in a parish and school ministry since his ordination twelve years ago. He joins the Family Rosary team as an Assistant, while he works to study Pastoral Counseling in the Boston area. With a personal devotion to Mother Mary, Father Jilson is thrilled to be working to enhance family prayer through the Rosary. And if you ever need a listening ear or want to play a board game, Father Jilson’s your guy!