It is fun to think over the past weeks’ events in these waning days of summer. We remember all the conversations, gatherings, and family celebrations. We look back at the blessings and forward to fall and the promise of harvest.
One memorable summer event was when our youngest grandson experienced a first bee sting on his finger. It was a difficult lesson that taught that small creatures can bring significant hurt. His mom was there to treat the pain and comfort with her words.
I winced when I heard the story. I then remembered, as a child I had been stung on the tongue. I may have been six or seven years old. I was running and shouting, and the insect and I were on incompatible paths. The adults around me provided first aid and soothing words. I received a lot of attention. Fortunately, there were no further complications.
Family members’ confident and reassuring words were essential to my quick recovery. I realize now how others’ previous learning and wisdom give us space that supports how we adjust to new experiences, surprises, setbacks, and even suffering. There is a depth of love in the eyes of those who care about us when responding to our acute needs.
The Words We Choose
The words we choose to use with one another can have a healing dimension. We live in a time of instant messaging, and sometimes, our words can sting. We also know when someone’s words console or inspire us. We know when someone’s sincere tone, comforting presence, and intent listening make us feel we are the most important person in the world to this other person at this time. These are remarkable moments, and we have many of them throughout a lifetime. They are treasures of consolation. I believe they are blessings of God’s Spirit.
“Let the words of my mouth meet with your favor, keep the thoughts of my heart before you, LORD, my rock and my redeemer.” (Psalm 19:15)
Meditating on the Words
Perhaps in our prayer life, we can benefit from the rich depth of the power of words. Words are the springboard of insight, the conduit of thought, and how we express our desires. Words help us celebrate and describe how we feel.
In our family prayer, let us meditate on the Lord’s words as they shape our lives, our values, and even how we pray.