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Virtues for the Prayer-Filled Life - Weekday Homily Video

Written by Father Fulgrens Katende, C.S.C. | Oct 15, 2025 7:46:44 PM

Today the church celebrates the Memorial of St Teresa of Avila or Teresa of the Child Jesus. Saint Terresa lived in the 16th century. Together with St. John of the Cross, they made reforms on the Congregation of Carmelite friars and nuns.

In one of her famous works of contemplation, “The Way of Perfection,” a practical guide on how to achieve spiritual growth, she mentions three things that inform this short homily or reflection. She talks of three essential virtues for a prayer filled life:

  • Fraternal love: she implores us to nurture a deep and sincere love for one’ s community
  • Detachment from worldly desires and affections.
  • Humility: that helps us to understand our faults, imperfections and recognizing that all good comes from God.

 

Focus on Christ's Message

In today’s Gospel, we hear Jesus strongly rebuking the Pharisees and Scribes. He is angry with them because instead of preaching God’s love, they focused on the following:

  • They misled people with misplaced or exaggerated interpretations of the law. In the process, placing unnecessary and unendurable burdens on the poor people.
  • They imposed burdensome rules which obscured important aspects God’s message; love of God and love of neighbour.
  • They were very attentive to minute matters of little importance, in the process neglecting to care for the needy and the weak.
  • Their hearts were filled with pride and contempt for others. They assumed they were more pious and learned than others.

The essence of Jesus’ message is love of God and love of neighbour. Since God is love, whatever Jesus does flows from love for us. We too need to work from the same vision and understanding. Saint Teresa's three essential virtues for a prayer-filled life captures that message well.

Whatever we do as Christians, as believers, should be guided and directed by a heart filled with Fraternal love, a heart that is sincere and gives reverence to God not our oneself. A love that both embraces and lifts the burdens of others.

An Invitation to Love as Christ Loves

That kind of love requires detachment from worldly desires; it invites us to let go, not to draw attention to ourselves, to become selfless for others. That kind of love requires humility of Jesus, that made him empty himself to die for our sake. That kind of love invites an awareness of our own imperfections so that we don’t ride in pride or with a sense of self-entitlement.

Borrowing from Saint Teresa, we can pray for the grace to always allow ourselves to be guided by God’s love, as we relate and minister to people.

  • Today’s Readings

  • Father Boby's inspirational homily was recorded live during Mass at the Father Peyton Center this morning. You can view the Mass (and the Rosary at the 30-minute mark) on the Family Rosary YouTube page.

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